Dealing with a player dating

The womanizer is the alpha male who name drops everyone he knows, talks about the car he drives, and says the sleaziest pick up lines you can think of, such as "I'm going to make your night, pretty lady." An abundance of jewelry around his neck and bright peacock clothing are major signs that you need to take off! I did all this stuff in my younger years, but it reaches a point where you get diminishing returns.About your Hot/Cold partner: There's a marked difference between a relationship hiccup and the game of hot and cold.

Just notice where you are in the cycle and don't let it disempower you.

Understanding what comes next puts you back in control of your own reactions.

A player is always chasing the next girl he sees in a skirt.

If he’s not talking about getting serious, he isn’t serious about the relationship.

A hot and cold player reverts to cold as the norm, with bursts of hot that don't result in forward movement.

The root cause of this behavior is a desperate attempt to gain control over the uncontrollable; love. But the partner, who's committed to playing safe, will never allow himself or herself to experience love.

But knowing of their existence and recognizing their predictable patterns will allow your dating to be a rewarding, rather than confusing, experience.

Every smart woman knows the world is just overflowing with players. The one who smooth talks his way in with his charm and strong, sexy demeanor. He seems much more absorbed in his text conversations than he is with the events of your day.

They'll toy at it, dipping their toes in and out of the water without ever getting wet.

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