However, when we fall in love, our minds don't just see a person – we see the person that we perceive.
When we're in love we don't just perceive the person that is in front of us, but what that person means to us. But when we first fall in love we overlook these truths and usually choose to ignore them all together. First off, if you're looking to spend your life with anyone, then you should firstly accept the fact that you're dating someone who comes with just as much baggage, just as many issues and just as many nasty habits as everyone else.
Points for trying to look beyond the glitzy wow-factor, but the best of both worlds does exist. NEXT: 4 More Signs She’s GF Material [pagebreak] 7. She doesn’t have to be BFFs with her Little Black Book, but she certainly shouldn’t be mortal enemies with all the men from her past.
If she is, the next adversary she makes could be you. These three Fs are non-negotiable: friends, family, faith.
“If she hates her exes and is still fighting with them, she isn’t really available to you or is letting you know how things will end,” Frances says. If she makes it clear she’s not down with any one of them, then you better not get down with her.
“This is a weird one that many guys try to rationalize away, but it can be the biggest source of problems down the road,” Frances says. Hate to break it to you, but if yousuffocated, you are indeed being smothered.
The worst choice that you can make is a woman that cockblocks you from fulfilling your mission.". NEXT: 8 More Signs She’s GF Material [pagebreak] 3. If you can’t name half a dozen non-physical reasons she’s a cool human being, it ain’t gonna last.
“Whatever that thing is, you better make sure that the women you're with will support you in your pursuit of it. “To be in the girlfriend category, a woman should appear confident, easy-going, and not be the one who flirts with every guy she meets,” says dating expert Julie Spira, author of .“Going out in public with a dress that fits like a blouse won’t score any points for long-term potential,” Spira says. Your future girlfriend shouldn’t ever feed you a line of BS. You find her crazy-attractive—and that attraction grows, not fades.“If you can bring her to an office party without being embarrassed, you’ll be able to bring her home to your family.” Keep that in mind. You may wish she was into your new mustache-thing or cared about football, but it’s best if she fesses up to the contrary. If that sounds about right, then she’s GF-material.“If she doesn't tell you the truth, or the whole truth, and her stories just don't add up, it’s a total deal-breaker,” says Frances. If you think she’s just , then do yourself a favor and do her a favor.If she’s not honest about the little things, she may not be honest about the biggies either. “Life is too short to be with a woman who doesn't rock your nation,” says Frances.At the very least, you should be able to admit and accept when you know – or rather when the facts show – that it would never work in the long run.