Relationship game undergoes a lot of testing here, as are a man’s true commitment to his girl.Now, I have had various experiences as have my friends, but there are two ways to react when a girl “tests” you. In the more communistic north, which is where I spent 9 months of my time, getting laid is *hard*.
It’s pretty obvious at this point in the article that cold approach pickup is non-existent here (other than the handful of clubs at Saigon).
This is because it’s so easy to meet Vietnamese girls through social circles and Vietnamese dating sites (as long as it’s not your girlfriend’s social circle).
In modern regions such as North America, Europe, or Singapore, women have learned to put up “shields” over their true personalities as they grow to be an adult.
When talking to a western chick, a guy has to cut through shield after shield just to get at the root of a girl’s true feminine side before being able to take control. Vietnamese girls will attempt to lie or hide feelings you will always know where you stand with her, giving you an upper hand.
in the romanticized, classic sense of the word, when they start acting like the classic 1950’s uptight jealous wife, giving you a slap in the face for even seeing you walking (or riding motorbike with) another girl.
Either that or an emotion fueled shouting battle, turning up some much-needed intensity in relationships.
This includes ignoring you completely for 2 days, flaking on a major date or commitment, or even claiming you stole something of theirs just to see how you react. This is due to how close they are with China both in terms of location and contract-like relationship culture.
One is that you ignore her back and dominate, taking on the player role; the other is to “fall in” to her trap of drama willingly and be on your knees for her, begging. Although it does spike your exotic senses, it’s probably going to be a lot more dating and romance, and a lot less real action. But while Hanoi girls strive for a “perfect” pure, model look, Saigon girls value and exhibit far more diverse, with colorful and fashionable clothes, and revealing attire. Their core still feature the same values and you can find a wide range of conservative and liberal Vietnamese girls down here.
If you’re not, then Vietnam Cupid is probably your best bet.