In order to get that power and control, most teen abusers start out very slyly using the various tactics - or spokes - of the wheel, but usually increase their use of them over time.
Dating abuse is a pattern of abusive behaviors used by one person in a dating relationship to exert power and control over a dating partner.
The power and control wheel below shows many of the tactics that may be used by an abusive partner to try to control the other person.
The definition also points out that at the core of dating violence are issues of power and control.
The diagram below from details how violent words and actions are tools an abusive partner uses to gain and maintain power and control over his or her partner.
You will come up with a relationship under control, not a relationship that is controlling you.
Dating Abuse is defined as a pattern of coercive behavior in which one person attempts to control another through threats or actual use of physical violence, sexual assault, and verbal or psychological abuse.
Equality Wheel A strong dating relationship is based on equality and respect, not power and control.
Think about how you want to be treated in a relationship.
Anyone can find themselves involved with someone who chooses to use these controlling behaviors.