Don't treat your boyfriend as an mental or emotional punching bag.By treating him with the same amount of respect you'd like him to give you, you'll always be on equal footing.
But when he's always having to pump you up and give you a confidence boost each and every day? Being confident in yourself will take a lot of pressure off your relationship.
When a girl is confident, her boyfriend can relax and not have to worry about mood swings or indecisiveness due to insecurity.
Men hate trying to figure out what you really mean or want when you say something.
Don't hide behind moodiness, PMS, or any other excuse - if you're feeling something, bring it up. Don't expect your boyfriend to instinctively know what's wrong, or let him spend half the night guessing at it.
Take a long, honest look at your relationship from an outside perspective and try to determine whether or not you might've been smothering your boyfriend.
If you gave him a hard time whenever he went solo or made him feel guilty for going out without you, there's a good chance you were a little too dependent upon him for your happiness.
The tips and techniques found within this resource will help put you back on the right track to making your ex want you again. If you think part of your allure is letting your boyfriend "figure you out" from day to day, you couldn't be more wrong.
Guys like simplicity, low-drama, and generally want a woman who's very easygoing.
This allows for a more secure partnership - one where the two of you work together to acheive your goals.
But just as you wouldn't (and shouldn't) stand around for him constantly berating you or putting you down, your boyfriend isn't going to stand for it either. If you've been guilty of a lack or respect for your boyfriend or feel like you might have pushed him away with such behavior, one of the first things you need to do is identify these signals. Very often girls lose sight of this, or intentionally act mysterious.
Sometimes getting back together with your ex is as easy as flipping the switches for these behaviors back into the on position.