Is it normal to have sex chat with a strange guy in the first chat? at first I thought it's OK but then questions become weird like how many bfs have you had? Is it normal to talk about these things in normal american conversation?
------------------------------------- can you explain me american culture in these situations? @sweet1993 It isn't necessarily "normal", but it is a kind of "norm" in America. Let me explain further: America is in itself a very sexualized country.
I wish you luck, America is a great place, these men aren't very common. You kind of made me ashamed of my country actually, but it is the truth.
The guys in America are used to the girls being open to sexual interaction and overly flirtatious. Normal would mean that it is openly accepted by all people.
The norm means that it happens regardless of if it is acceptable or not.
I registered in a website which finds speaking partners for different languages and then I chose english and searched based on education level. In America there are men who like women from foreign places, a lot of men liking Asian women specifically.
Usually, these people like Asian women in a sexual context, unfortuntely, and it seems they're using the site for that purpose.
If you get random contact requests I suggest declining unless you've been informed who this contact was previously.
@Princess Bijira you are right but the problem is that i don't know any american people in real life but let me explain, I don't add people randomly. I think you should avoid that site in the future, these people seem to be trying to take advantage of people who don't speak English as their native language.
Be firm and cordial when you refuse, and if they don't listen to reason, block them at all costs.
This is, unfortunately, normal if these are men you (or anyone you know and trust) didn't know before these chats and may have been added to your contacts randomly.
There is a penpal site that I use which is pretty reliable: It is better than other sites because you only give out your email address to people you choose.